When you ask a question do you really expect people to answer you truthfully????

Then why does some people always get upset/iritated and irate with others when all we do is answer the way we normally would? Do you think your answer/ question would be the same if you had to face the person asking/ answering? Mine would be a bit different if I had to face the person, but then again I am known for being straight forward and blunt.... hmmmm... things that make ya go hmmmm...